Maybank Malaysian Open

Such a ‘cool’ morning to start out with. Went back to sleep as it rained heavily :) . I only managed to get out of bed at 12.30pm. But poor SM had to wait for the tournament to take place due to the heavy rain. I for once, have never encouraged SM to be so keen towards golf. But seeing him happy is just soooooooo nice. So I bought him the tix for Maybank Malaysian Open. The tix wasn’t that expensive anyway. But being a Maybanker, I could have gotten the tix for RM10 (full session Thurs-Sun). Tapi takpe la :)

Wedding Dress

I've finally found 'the one'. ;) Been to many bridal boutiques. U name it, KL, Shah Alam, Kajang, Bangi. Poor fiance had to drive me all around. Anyway im here to talk about the experiences ive dealt with throughout the past 4 months of wedding dress hunting. Im sure all the B2B have their own experiences. Whether its good or bad kan? :)

Let me list down ALL the bad experiences Ive had with certain bridal houses that ive been to. TUJUAN: Not to bring down their business, but we as customers and B2B, have the rights to know. Name of the company shall not be disclose as i still have respect for their business. But if any of you would like to know who they are, u may email me personally :). Not a problem.

1) The boutique is located at Klang. Pernah kluar dlm majalah Pengantin. So fiance and i made an appointment at 7pm as it was after work. Office is at KL so i had to rush my way to get there. The boutique closes at 8pm. We understand that clearly. Anyway when we got there, there was two staffs. The one who entertained us was ok. But we werent satisfied. I like the dress which was on the manequin. So i showed some interest towards that dress. And she said something like this "ohh...baju ni tak sesuai dgn akak..sebab baju ni panjang..untuk org tinggi..klo akak kecik mcm ni tak sesuai". That was one remark. So i chose another dress...and she allowed me to have it a try. When i got to the fitting room, the other girl approached us. She asked when i was getting hitched. And with her bengis face PR negative, told us i cant try it on. I can only try it on ONLY if i was certain that i want the dress. OMGGGGG..how am i supposed to determine whether i want the dress w/o trying it on?? Sangat tak professional. When i got out from the room, fiance was puzzled. I told him they wont let me try it on. He got pissed. And we left. I was soooo down. Fiance wasnt satisfied so he texted the owner. She called us back from Medan. Apologized etc...her PR was good enough. She even gave us discount of the dress that was on the manequin. But Fiance said "no thanks, were going for Gezal Mihat". Padahal tak ponnnnn..saje nak belagak dgn org belagak. eheheheh. So thats one story.

2) 2nd story is not from my personal experience but from a friend's. She went to a wedding expo recently at midvalley. She came to this one booth which has a boutique at Taman Melawati ;). She is a plus size...and she asked one of the girl if there is any dress her size. And the girl looked at her and then to her colleague as if saying 'u tu gemok..mana ada baju size u'. So she just left the booth.

3) Another friend who paid deposit at one of the bridal butik during a wedding expo for a dais was promised that they would do the dais as according to my friend's liking. However when she came few days later to talked about the dais...they refused to do as what she wanted. Reason being: They would have to buy more deco. And the owner's intonation towards my friend was quite rude.

So B2B, please be extra careful when dealing with all the bridal boutiques. I would not recommend u to book what ever u want during the wedding expo. Go dirently to their boutiques...ask lotsa Qs...do more research...DO NOT be influence with the price they offer. Quality is indeed vital :) Happy hunting

Cium Pantat Gue?

Haaaaa....mesti fikir saya lucah kan. Pantat in B.Indo is butt FYI. Anyway we met with an accident. Very unfortunate i know :(. Tapi harus la tenang and bersabar. Allah nak menguji tu. Fiance, Fiance's fren and i were on our way to Senawang,N9 for a fren's daghter birthday party. We were on the Seremban highway when suddenly a car hit our car from the back. Mesti la saya mengelabar sebab tak penah pon accident mcm ni. Sedih sgt2 bila tgk kete sgt2 teruk :(. But luckily we managed to claim the insurance of the other car to cover all the expenses.

Fate Has Its Own Plan

25.12.2010 is when Syed Muslim (kodeng) and i are officially engaged. Thats right baby, engaged.
Syukur alhamdulillah I am blessed. Been through heartbreaks tons of time, but Allah is just. Eventually i was given the best among the best. Alhamdulillah. And the story begins.....

Ive known him since August last year when the ex-A and i were breaking fast at The Apt. He was one of ex-A's good old friend. So we hung out a couple of times when i was still with ex-A. And when ex-A broke it off, me and him were still friends. We became very close but i only look at him as an older brother. But something came up that forced us from being friends. So we abide by it for almost half a year until things didnt work out with the nenek kebayan. And we re-connected once again.

I was dating L during that period. But he never took advantage. We were like before, friends. And when things didnt turn great between me and L, only then he started to get closer to me.

But the feelings were NEVER there from day one. However, I realized that my feelings towards him started to evolve right before i went for the Maybank iv. I told myself that if i ever get that job, i would consider myself into settling down. And when i finally got accepted...my world suddenly changed. Totally changed. Wallahi i felt that Allah really opened up my heart to him. Tiba2 rasa sayang :). Anyway he prolly noticed that ive been giving good respond. And we were officially a couple starting mid November even though he never proposed. As always, no specific date :P. And early December he told me that his parents would like to come over for an engagement w/o them knowing me in person first. Maybe ni dinamakan rezeki. Im grateful to have future inlaws that dont make stupid judgement over who the person are. Accepting me as i am. Prioritizing their son's happiness.

Having kodeng around is like living under the rainbow. My life is full of colors. Everyday is all about laughter. I love u too much. I couldnt care less what others think of us. He was the one who was there through my ups and downs. He was the one who would always remind me to be thankful of what i posessed when i felt that life wasnt unfair. And he never gave up when rejection was the last word.

So thats the story. It happened so fast. woooooooshhhhhh.

Cold

As i was in the monorail heading for work, i came to witness something that i reckon is just unbelievably bodoh. The monorail as always was sardine-packed with people. I was standing in front of this lady who was sitting down. She then offered this makcik who was prolly in her 50s her seat. She called the makcik twice. And to my surprise, the makcik with her naturally rude and bengis face glanced and shook her head. As if saying "im not that old bitch!". Helooooo....dh tau muka tu jenis masam mencuka, bengis etc...bg la senyuman sket and say 'no thanks'. Ni org dh buat baik tapi buat muka rude gila. I pity the lady. Her face then changed. SOOOOOOOOOOOO Malaysia Truly Asia!

A new of EVERYTHING

Allah has answered my prayers. New career, new love, a new beginning of everything. Im finally getting engaged to the one ive been searching for all this while. Met many people but never realized that the one had always been there depan mata. What a miracle. Syukur alhamdulillah.

More to Come

Semakin hari semakin byk rezeki Allah berikan. Syukur alhamdulillah.
I found out that i also got accepted into UM to undergo my masters degree in Msian History for the January intake. Very contemplating as i wlll start working with Maybank in January. The thing im worried about is that i might not be able to cope with both study and career.
Ada org kata kita tak boleh tamak. Pilih je salah satu. Mcm sayang je nak lepaskan peluang belaja. Tp bila2 masa boleh belaja kan. But career....my my...have to wait a year to finally get this dream job. Please permudahkan jalan. Amin :)