Sunday, May 31, 2009

Not so good luck

The past few weeks

1)Woke up with a big scratch on my face..prolly accidentally scratch it without even realizing it while i was sleeping. Weird. I dont have long nails. Left a scar on my face. Takpe..nampak ganas sket.

2)Got a big zit on my nose after 3months without any pimples. Thank u mense!

3) Broke my glasses while performing ablution at a masjid in Nilai. Hung it on my shirt..fell and stepped on it. I feel so blindddddddddd.

4) Jai the hairdresser cut my hair tooooooo short! i hate it!

Friday, May 29, 2009

IF A MAN WANTS YOU

A friend posted this note in fb. And here i am to share it with u guys. Girls..stand up for urselves. Boys..dont fret.

1.If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.

2. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.

3. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.

4. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.

5. Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be.

6. Slower is better.

7. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.

8. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve
then heck no, you can't 'be friends.' A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.
Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
Don't stay because you think 'it will get better.' You'll be mad at yourself
a year later for staying when things are not better.

9. The only person you can control in a relationship is you.

10. Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women.
He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant,
Why would he treat you any differently?

11. Always have your own set of friends separate from his.

12. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.

13. If something bothers you, speak up.

14. NEVER let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.

15. You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within.
Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has
more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god.
He is a man, nothing more nothing less.

16.Never let a man define who you are.

17.A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.

18. All men are NOT dogs. (i beg to difer... bt wateva)

19. You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two-way street.

20.You need time to heal between relationships..........there is nothing cute about
baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship
You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists
of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.

21. Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr.. Right.
Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and your
always readily available to him- he takes it for granted.

22. Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.
Keep him in your radar but get to know others.

Keep on kissing toads if u have to..to find that prince of urs :). Good luck

Tuesday, May 26, 2009

Put the blame on ME

Talking bout failed relationships, my friend and i once came across this issue. Anyway, he said instead of blaming the other half, why not put the blame on ourselves. Look at ourselves and discover our own flaws. As for him, well he thinks that he doesnt have the looks compared to others. Looks really matters. It does. Who doesnt want good looking gf/bf.
Last 2days i went to buy my contact lenses. The abg was very nice to my mom. He's married with 2 kids. Anyway, my mom was asking about the other guy(his colleague). Unfortunately his engagement was called off. The girl prolly found a more good looking man. So this abg was like 'kak, klo nak ikotkan saya muak tgk muka isteri saya hari2, tp kita kena fikir klo kita sakit, dh tua, sapa nak jaga kita'. So yeah, being loyal is very much indeed vital. But i told myself 'mampus ko klo isteri ko dgr'. :P Tapi laki mcm ni la yang kita perempuan nak. SEDAR DIRI.
And my flaws are.....MAYBE im too lenient. Easily deceived. Never learn mistakes from my previous relationships.

Monday, May 25, 2009

Kangen Kenit

Nita's off to college and away for the very first time. The house is so quiet since loud2 people aren't around (nita&ira). Anyway i guess we all miss her. Mama was calling her name in her dream last nite. And when we fetched adi from school today, he was like 'nnt cendol ni bg dkt nita'. And we were like 'adi, nita's not home'.

Saturday, May 23, 2009

The Best


The vc is exactly like The Notebook. Sangat la sweet. And the song is so true. Once u start seeing other people...u tend to do comparison( i know its not healthy). And the best will remain in ur heart no matter what :)

Wednesday, May 20, 2009

Daniel

ohhhh myyyyy godddddddddddd he is soooooooooooooo yummmyyyyyyyyyyyyy.
can i have him to be my hubby? Good voice, can sing, can play guitar, good looking, hot, hot and definitely HOT. SWOoooooooonNNNNNNN~~~ And yes he does looks like paly. bleurghhh

Friday, May 15, 2009

The Ex


Im starting to like the fact that we're no longer together. Everything is transparent. We can hang out when ever we want..where ever we want to. Coz we're friends. And no one can say anything about it. So its true.What ever happens to us, there's always something good beyond it.

Wednesday, May 13, 2009

Meet new people, some may remain as loved ones, some may not.
And now i can tell the ones who are sincere and those who are not.
Isnt that obvious?

Sunday, May 10, 2009

Daniel Henney



Met up with a friend today and went to watch X-Men origins wolverine. It was awesome even though it doesnt seem real..but X-Men IS suppose to be unrealistic. Anyway i didnt know Daniel Henney would be in it. Thought he was just a typical Korean actor. He became Agent Zero unfortunately. Why do good looking hot guys always have to be the bad guy?

Friday, May 8, 2009

I need it badly

My only cure...and i cant have it...for now anyway.

Biadab

Went to the salon today with mama to cut my bangs. Afterward to the mamak coz mama was craving for maggie goreng. It was around 1.30pm(friday). We were quite surprise to see several malays eating there. Men, school boys, the owner himself(we asked and yes he's a mamak).
Anyway..that did not bother me that much. What bothered me was this lil boy(well not THAT lil prolly aroung form4 kot). My mom was ordering her food and he was trying to walk through. There was like soooooo much space left and he had to make this annoying sound as if he's annoyed that my mom was blocking his way. I heard it. Ape lagi...i sound budak tu. I said(more like shouting kot ahahha) "ape haish2....kurang asam punya budak"..gila biadap. Seriously..kids nowadays are like soooooo rude. No one messes with my mom okeyyy. One of the major factors why i broke up with pjo was that his mom undermine and condemn my mom. I dont give if she condemned me but not MY family. Screw these people....klo ikotkan hati nak je sound lebih..but he walked out as if he didnt hear me..he prolly did hear me but was too scared. takot la tu. Dh la ketot. I bagi wedgy padan muka. Tak solat plak tu. I wonder how he treats his own mom.

Wednesday, May 6, 2009

Wifey

I once came through this article on the role of wife and mother in Islam. Anyway, a man(who's married) first priority must be:

1)his mother
2)mother in law
3)his father
4)his father in law
5)his wife

And its the other way around for wife. So future wifey must bear with this. But look at the bright sight, when u become a mother, u'll be ur babies' first priority :).

Fat..thats me :)

Anand has been bugging me for the past few days. Actually he bugs me ALL the time. Calling me fat, fety no2, etc. I know ive gained some weight. And it has bothering me as well. But what to do..i have to make my tummy happy all the time. Otherwise ill have to face with gastric and that hurts alot. But anyway, he bet on me that i wont lose weight by this october(we'll meet on oct). If he wins, then ill have to wear a t-shirt that says "saya gemok" all day long. And if i win, he'll have to wear a t-shirt that says "saya terbantut". Nice ha?

Friday, May 1, 2009

Kenit Congratz

Got a call from mama. At first I thought something was just not right. Her intonation and all…biasa la mama…when she talks is as if she’s screaming, what more if she was screaming. Anyway, told me nita got accepted into UIA. I was like for real???? UIA??? That’s something. Im so proud of my baby sister. Happy happy sangat happy. She failed few subjects so the chances of her getting accepted are pretty bleak. Anyway….im so happy she has made mama and papa proud and happy. Take that Ira!! Have some faith in our lil sis for god sake.